More Christmas at Less Money

I will always remember my favorite Christmas. My daughter was 4 years old and I had recently divorced her father. I could only afford generic toys and cheap wrapping. Yet, as she ripped the brightly colored paper off of each package her face lit u and she exclaimed "This is my favorite!" and "This is the BEST Christmas ever!"
She got what she wanted - a car for her dolls, dress up clothes and toys. She didn't care that it wasn't official "Brand Name" product. That was my concern, not hers.
There are so many things to give for Christmas that don't cost. I would like to give you a few ideas here. Then think up your own. You know your friends and family, I don't.

• Little Girls - I think they are the most fun. You can go to a thrift store and spend $5 or less on a used prom dress. Then get a couple of scarves in filmy fun colors for them to dress their babies up in. Put them all in a plastic storage container that you've decorated for them. This will seem so grown up to them and they will have hours of fun playing "dress up." When you do buy them a stroller for their favorite doll, a stuffed animal, etc - go to a discount store. Buy a generic stroller. They don't care, and if they do it may be time to help them understand gratitude.
• Little Boys - I don't have as much experience with these as I only raised a daughter. However, the rules are the same. Buy generic, buy from discount stores. Buy a box of little cars and help them set up a course from the gift boxes. Buy them FUN, not STUFF.
• Big Girls - Much harder. They understand the difference in generic vs real. And they think it's important to keep up with everyone else. So this may be a teaching moment. Let them be part of the choice. Tell them that this year will be harder than in the past. Ask them if they want second hand brand names or new generics?
  
• Big Boys - Not quite so concerned about brands, except in athletic shoes. So stay away from these. I was able to get a young man a generic (well known brand, but not THE brand) MP3 player and accessories for $40. Electronics are a good choice, simply watch the price.
• Adults - Easiest of all. What did you get last year? I don't remember, either. Only give presents to people that matter. Give of yourself - you time, your talent - not money.
• Yourself - Be kind to yourself. Take time for you. Enjoy your friends and family this season. Enjoy yourself.

These aren't ALL of the answers, but they are SOME of the answers. Enjoy.